When
some average mope at a party learns that I blog about brain tumors, I get
questions, a lot of particularly morbid questions like:
- “How bad is brain cancer compared to other
cancers?”
- “How long does ______(our friend) have to live?”
- “What’s the worst cancer to have?”
I rarely know how to answer these questions
because it’s hard to think of a brain tumor or cancer that isn’t bad and I know almost nothing about the victim's situation.
I just found the Cancer Research UK website, though, which is helpful in providing information on how to compare the different
cancers. The average
survival rates give everybody – victims, caregivers, friends & family –
have some vague idea of what to expect (although, as with most everything in
life, your survival rate may differ).
If you go to this website, poke around a bit,
there’s a lot of good information.
Here’s a link: http://www.cancerresearchuk.org/health-professional/cancer-statistics/survival/common-cancers-compared#heading-Zero
John
PS - I
find this whole business of comparing cancers and deciding whose
friend/relative/significant other has the worse cancer to be particularly
idiotic. Here’s my excerpt from my book,
“Chief Complaint, Brain Tumor” - http://www.chief-complaint.com/
- about such inane conversations:
“The
phrase “brain tumor” is scary and difficult to slide into any casual,
over-the-fence-with-the-neighbor
conversation. I imagined the following
conversation
when running into a friend at Starbuck’s:
“Hey
Fred, how’s it going?”
“Great!
Our daughter Mary just made the high school jazz band as the
bass
player, the only student to ever be picked as a sophomore.”
“Congratulations!”
“And
you, how’s it going?”
“Well,
I’ve just been diagnosed with a brain tumor—the tumor’s as big
as
your wife’s fist.”
“No
shit. Well…how about them Bears?”
And
with your more competitive acquaintances, I could imagine the
following
conversation with Ashton:
“John,
how are you? It’s good to see you.”
“I’ve
just been diagnosed as having a brain tumor.”
“Really,
what kind?”
“It’s
a Grade I meningioma. It’s about as big as your fist.”
“Well,
my brother Dave has a Grade III metastatic brain tumor. It’s a
Gliomas
type of brain tumor. We’re very worried about it infiltrating adjacent
brain
tissue. You should be grateful that you only have a Grade I meningioma!”